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074 - Holiday Breaks & Breakdowns

Everybody needs a break. All the time. Everyday. 365/24/7 or so it seems. The duo discusses how PTO and the holidays collide, the new norms in time off, unplug culture, and how to try your best to chill the F' out (cough cough). Take a break and give it a listen.





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Alexa

What's up, Tyson?



Tyson

Oh, my gosh. I actually have some some interesting an interesting update, I guess.



Alexa

Amazing. I can't wait.



Tyson

So it's not it's interesting, but it's also like mostly just like a lot of nerves for me. So I am going on my very first business trip since. Oh, from that we've gone. Yeah, I'm going to be gone for two nights and three days, which is super exciting. I can't wait to be in real life with people again.



Tyson

But this means that I'm also the new way for my baby for two nights. So I'm like dealing with a lot of those emotions and fears and, like, she has. No, it's just I just look at her and I'm like, Oh, she has no idea what's up, but, like, what's going to happen in the next day or so, and then I'm going to be gone.



Tyson

And it just it breaks my heart, but I got to return it off eventually.



Alexa

Do you? Do you? This is this is a natural progression. And she will she will survive. I'm sure your husband is well equipped to to watch for her for two days. But and I'm excited for you to to have a your first business trip.



Tyson

No.



Alexa

Which is so far.



Tyson

Yeah. No, it's it's going to be extremely interesting.



Alexa

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Alexa

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Alexa

So it's better to hear someone tell the story so excited about that. Yeah, and I'm, I'm, uh, I'm also headed back to the States for a little while, so that's kind of exciting as well. It is the holiday season, Tyson, which we are going to talk about on this episode. And last but not least, our shameless plug. Have you joined the people of society yet, or perhaps as we call it, which is our community of people, arts and air professionals and listeners of the show, you can join our community to use the forum for peer feedback, download Awesome Resources written by peers, connect with thought leaders in H.R. and the benefits space and get access to


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Alexa

So make sure you sign up for our newsletter where we share our weekly episodes as well as tips, tricks, and sort of in the news segments from Tyson and I every week All right, Tyson, I said all of that and now I'm tired, which indicates that maybe I need a break and it's time to talk about PTF. So it's it's the holidays it's it's one of my strong suits is a good thing.


Alexa

Yeah. So the holiday season is among us, kind of regardless of the country that you're in, at least the Christmas holidays is coming down the pike in the States. We have the Thanksgiving holiday, which is quite a big holiday here as well as Christmas. So the end of the year in the United States, more work perspective is always a bit of like a Swiss cheese clusterfuck because there's like these two big holidays.


Alexa

And we'll talk about the week between Christmas and New Year's, I'm sure. But people are starting to figure out, like, you know, what are they what's what's the end of the year look like? We're six weeks from New Year as the recording of this, not to to date our episodes, but yeah, a lot lot happens in the next couple of weeks.


Alexa

What are your opening thoughts on PTO and holiday time off?


Tyson

So one thing that really just came to a huge surprise to me was that not everyone gets that week between Christmas and New Year's off. I just thought that, like, moving forward with the world, like that's kind of where we were going. Like, I don't understand why people work during that time unless there is like obviously some sort of customer response or, you know, some reason why you'd have to be like live like the people who work 20 47 kind of thing.


Tyson

Right?


Alexa

But I seasonal like in retail or something, right?


Tyson

No, exactly. I just, I'm talking like I say corporate, right? Like most corporate, not retail. Yeah, exactly.


Alexa

Right.


Tyson

The corporate people of retail probably get the time off potentially.


Alexa

What I've seen that's interesting is so I've always been curious about this because I'm like, look, I used to always feel really bad for the people that would like email me on Black Friday. And I'm like, Why did they make you go back to the office for this? Like one fucking day after you've like, had a whole day to spend with your family and relax and then the weekend starts, like, why do they make you go back in?


Alexa

And then I started to realize more and more people do the same thing for the week between Christmas and New Year's. And I think it just goes back to what I have seen increasingly so is that people are starting to gift this that gifted.


Tyson

Yes. Yes.


Alexa

Because they're saying like, we're closing the office because, one, I think nobody wants to work to know it's going back to the office. Three, it's like everyone's sort of collectively understands that you're not going to be very productive that like I think there are people like myself sometimes like I do sometimes work during that week. But for me, it's like good, unadulterated like me productive catch up time.


Alexa

That's very different than like, I need you to be in meetings and I need you to, like, show up at the office. I think that's increasingly some companies are trying to gift it as like, oh, look, we take care of our team. Yeah, but it's not it's not a majority for show.


Tyson

No, I guess you're right. And what's funny is so what I'm definitely seeing a lot more, like you said, the gifting, but I actually did work for a company not where I currently work, but I did work for a company previously where they did not gift it, but mandated you take it off. So in Ontario you can actually do that.


Tyson

Like legally you're allowed to tell people when to take their vacation. So we were forced to take two or three depending on like what the stats look like that your days off. And there was actually a lot of feedback like, hey, I don't actually celebrate Christmas. Why am I being forced to take this time off? So some of that feedback happened, but just generally we kind of said, well, you know, our clients aren't in that particular space.


Tyson

Our clients take this time off. So there's no point for us to be to be active. And it's, you know, a good time to recharge and whatever. And usually like I know this year is a little bit wonky because the two, maybe even three steps. So Christmas, Boxing Day and New Year's Day might all fall on weekends this year.


Tyson

So I think what a lot of.


Alexa

Christmas and New Year's Eve of Sunday is this year, which kind of sucks.


Tyson

Yeah. So they're popping that time into the week, right? So you get your start like in lieu of it's like in that week in between, you're like that.


Alexa

New Year's Day on the second. So everyone gets Monday the second off, even though New Year's Day falls on the first.


Tyson

But I think what some companies are doing is they're giving that day off on the Friday before, oh, first to make it inclusive. So we come back to work on the second. Oh, and then the day off isn't on the Friday.


Alexa

Yeah. In the US all of this is marked at least federal holidays are like bank holidays are marked. I mean, just let me actually look.


Tyson

At the.


Alexa

Calendar. No, it's, it's Monday. It's all I think it's almost always the next business day after.